rates to your half-empty bottle of juice in the office fridge? Well, apparently my Facebook feed caught a very strange bout of amnesia this morning, as multiple people were sharing and talking about Farrah Gray’s “10 Signs On How To Tell If He’s On The Down Low” — a list so 2004 that I felt (and still feel) like it was performance art. Does he like people, especially celebrities that take it to the limit? Your heart is pounding so hard through you chest you can hear the ringing echo of its thumping in your ears. It is now or never…you close your eyes…take a breath… Aside from the struggle to catch your breath, you are trying to run out the house, and find a way to get away with murder at the same time. Being judged and ostracized isn’t something most folks would sign up for, especially not a DL man whose sense of self is intricately linked to his ability to express masculinity and fulfill the traditional gender expectation assigned to men. If you are not comfortable doing something sexual with some you suspect may be on the DL then…DO NOT DO IT!Standing in front of your master bedroom door…all time seems to have come to a stop. and the next image that you see is worse than what you could have ever imagined… The whole while your mind is racing with thoughts; Why me? There are men from all walks of life who are living double lives and demonstrating little or no control over their sexual desires and actions. Whether he wants to give it or he wants to receive it, this could very well mean that he is possibly on the DL. If your partner at the time gets upset and doesn’t want to be protected…LET THEM GO! If it doesn’t look right, smell right, or taste right…it might not be right 3. Ladies how many times can you count throughout your life where your instincts were telling you something and you refused to listen only to later on wish you would have? If it is a situation you have to force yourself to be comfortable with…then it may not be one that you need to be involved in.The phenomenon of men on the down low has gained much attention in recent years; however, there are no data to confirm or refute publicized accounts of HIV risk behavior associated with these men.What is clear is that women, men, and children of minority races and ethnicities are disproportionately affected by HIV and AIDS and that all persons need to protect themselves and others from getting or transmitting HIV. The results of these studies will be published in medical journals and circulated through press releases in the next few years as each study is concluded and the data analyzed.